Unlock the Strength to Endure &
Find Hope in the Shadows of Grief

Highly Favored? Discovering Hope in the Shadows of Grief

Can someone truly be 'favored' by God while enduring unimaginable suffering and grief? Drawing from her own personal journey through grief, Denette offers a fresh perspective on the struggles of known biblical characters and stories, challenging conventional theology and encouraging a deeper, more compassionate understanding of God's presence in our darkest moments.

This book is for those grappling with unanswered questions, seeking to reconnect with their faith in times of unimaginable grief, and yearning to find peace and closure in the face of life's most painful circumstances.

If you're navigating sorrow, loss, or hardship and wondering where God is in the midst of it all, Highly Favored? will inspire you to embrace hope, rediscover your strength, and hold on to the belief that even in the shadows, God’s favor is still at work.

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"In Highly Favored?, Denette Schaer has contributed a moving and powerful work to the canon of bereavement literature. When the earth crumbles under our feet after devastating loss, we crawl towards the words of those who have gone before us and find in the best of them solid ground on which to stand again. Denette reminds us that "Hope is not handcuffed to our location or circumstances," and teaches us to take our pain, turn it into purpose, and to make it count. She shows us that God is close to the brokenhearted, and faithfully builds a theology of suffering that provides healing and help to the grieving." W. Lee Warren, MD, neurosurgeon and author of Hope Is the First Dose.

About Denette

Denette is a wife, mother, friend, dedicated minister, and marriage coach, who, alongside her husband, provides invaluable guidance to couples seeking to strengthen their relationships and families. As a passionate speaker and published author, Denette’s words inspire and uplift those facing challenges in love, resilience, and healing.

Though she thrives in helping others, Denette is a true introvert at heart. In her downtime, you’ll often find her at home, curled up with a good book, or enjoying special moments with her family. Nature, especially the calming beauty of the beach, is where she finds peace and renewal. Denette is also an adventurer, with a deep curiosity and a researcher’s spirit—always eager to learn and explore the world around her.

Having faced the unimaginable loss of her youngest son, Logan, Denette’s experience with grief has shaped her approach to compassion and healing. With an unwavering belief in the power of resilience, she shares her story and wisdom to help others navigate their own journeys through life’s hardest seasons.

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About the Schaers

High school sweethearts and partners in life, ministry, and marriage, Kurt & Denette Schaer spent over 27 years serving together in various roles—first in the local church and now through their
non-profit, Broken for Better. Their journey has been one of
passion for God, love for people, and a shared commitment
to building strong marriages and families.

Before launching Broken for Better, they’ve served in leadership
roles throughout the Tampa Bay community, including senior associate pastor, ministry director, youth pastor, and executive director of Faith Tampa Bay. Over the years, Kurt & Denette
had the privilege of discipling believers, ministering to the lost,
and coaching individuals and couples from all walks of life.

Through couples coaching, marriage workshops, and community events, Broken for Better is on a mission to change the narrative
of declining marriages and strengthen families for everyday life.

When not coaching, you can find them enjoying beach trips, cruises, and creating new memories with their family—always with a heart to inspire others to live life to the fullest.

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